Sorry

 Hola and Hello again my dear readers,

For this week, I've come with a really common word to use as my topic of the week for you. As you might have noticed, the word is 'Sorry'. You might just wanna get out of here now; but I'm actually not asking you to just simply say sorry. Just read on and I won't think you'd ever regret putting your time to read this. 

Now let's zoom into Sorry. 

The first thing what comes when we type the word sorry in Google, is the popular song Sorry by Justin Bieber. I don't think they are much people who haven't heard the song. What we want, is not the song. By the way, the song is also great.

This is what I got from Cambridge Dictionary÷

[ after verb ]

feeling sadness, sympathy, or disappointment, especially because something unpleasant has happened or been done:

Sorry is kind of a feeling. We feel sorry for someone. It's also a way of an apology and that's how I use it more. I don't think there are much days in my life without the word sorry. It's actually not a big deal in some cases. But in the other cases, that word can change the whole situation/atmosphere/mood. When today I was striding through the hallway in school, so fast for even I don't know what reason, I bumped on to a little girl. I said  I'm so sorry! I didn't see you coming. Would that have made her feel better? I don't know how it's like for you guys but for me, sorry just makes me feel good. It's just that, people who say sorry are so good people. I mean, in most cases I've noticed that friendly people say sorry alot. When I bumped her, if I had just said Didn't see you there! , is there any difference? Think about it. There's this difference that in the first case, we spread positivity. I love positivity. What about you? (Tell me about it in the comments) 

I think in this world where people are so busy and stressed, some but magical words like sorry which spreads positivity are essential. The world just makes us so stressful. Are there never problems? There's just a lot of things to deal about and not all things are which can we ask help for. I try to ask help everytime I need it. But there are this silly things like phone just got damaged, you forgot to take your project from home and etc. Who in the world can help us in the moaning ceremony of such things? Theese might be silly when we think about it. But, for the one who was struck by it, not so much. 

There are always people who keeps apolozing even when they did nothing. What I hate is, the people who takes the blame of others and apologise. But when I think of it in its positive way, what's wrong with that? I mean, they get relieved and they'll be greatful because you just saved them. Even if you got all the hate from someone else, you have nothing to be bothered because you didn't do it. Think about this positivity. Well, it is positivity when it comes to taking the blame of spilling water when it was your sibling who did it. It's okay then. But really, it's not any positivity. It's life. There are things that we might never even intended to do. Mistakes happen. But it's only mistakes that can teach us. We'll have to be blamed, scloded, punished and we should apologise. Never be ashamed to say sorry for your mistakes. Don't you ever take that thing from anyone. Let them pay for their mistake. You can help them, but not completely. By letting them pay, you are helping enough.

How poweful is sorry ?

To be frank, it's actually powerful. Have you ever noticed angry teachers getting calmed down when we say sorry to them? They actually do. When teachers notice me daydreaming, they get mad and they kind of embaress/scold us in front of the whole class. As soon as I'm back in the real world, I get up and say Sorry mam, I'll try not to repeat it. Sorry!. They get calmed down so soon that they let us sit. But there are some stubborn and stupid students who just stay silent when they are caught. They are immediately punished. It happened in my classroom two days ago when my teacher found out a girl drawing, when she was explaning how to write the answer of a question in our textbook. I thought my classmate might say sorry, but she didn't. She wasn't sent out of the class, but she was scolded. Accept and Apologise. It's not that hard.

It was my mom who taught me how powerful the word sorry was. And she have also told me not to say sorry when there's nothing you need to apologise for. Also, she taught me that if it's really necessary or if you really think that your sorry can make the person at the other end happy, then why do you hesitate to say it?

The word sorry is so powerful, positive and magical. Ain't it? Just try and learn to say sorry. You might find it hard in the begining but eventually you'll be familiar with it. Accept and Apologise.

One more thing, it's never too late to say sorry. Trust me, it's not. If after you realise that your sorry was late, then let it go. I don't think it was ever something that could ever end in a sorry. Have you read my Hakuna Matata ? Go read it. I've been deep about leeting go in Hakuna Matata.  It's available on spotforyoubyme.blogspot.com and spotforyoubyme.wordpress.com in my blog Glittering Black.   

I haven't talked about forgiving. I look forward to discuss about that topic in the future.

The quotes below are some random/meaningful ones I found from the internet. I loved theese so I thought I'd share it with you. Read and understand it. It might help you too. 

1. The weak can never forgive, forgiveness is the attribute of the     strong. ~M.K Gandhi/Mahatma Gandhi

2. Mistakes are always forgivable if one has the courage to admit them. ~Bruce Lee

3. Apologies aren't meant to change the past, they are meant to change the future. ~Kevin Hancock

4. Not admitting a mistake is a bigger mistake.~Robert Half

5. It is incredible how many hurts can be healed by the two words, 'I'm sorry'. ~Matshona Dhliwayo 

Have a great time! Enjoy life. I love you my readers. Do comment and share if you liked this post.

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